Everyone else is like …. And I’m not, so something is wrong with me. Yes I hear this all the time too!
Yes, something is wrong with you, it is the fact that you think that there is something wrong with you because everyone else is like …..(you fill in the blank).
Here’s the problem with this, not everyone is like anything.
Most of the time, you have no idea what anyone else really has or doesn’t have,
or what they really feel or don’t feel. You perceive things a certain way and
then you believe them, you also perceive yourself a certain way. It’s all in
your head! Everyone is set out to be their own person. You shouldn’t be
comparing yourself to anyone else but your best self. You need to set your own
standard of your life.
If you think that you are the only one who has issues,
situations, things that you may perceive as bad luck etc, then you are sadly
mistaken. We all go through trials and tribulations in our lives. These things
are not what are important though, how we handle these obstacles is much more
We are all handed some struggles to deal with, you are not
singled out, you do not have the bad luck gene and nothing is wrong with you.
When you look at it as something being wrong with you, you are playing the
victim! You are being a victim of your own circumstances and you think poor me!
Let’s turn this attitude around right now! The only thing
wrong is how you deal. So you need to find a way to deal with situations that
arise to make you think something is wrong. Maybe you can look at what this
obstacle can bring to your life, how overcome this obstacle can enhance your
life. Without struggle, we wouldn’t have accomplishments. The accomplishments
are powerful and create a strong sense of self.
When you feel like everything may be coming down on you at
once, you need to prioritize and tackle one thing at a time. Writing things
down always helps! What is the situation or obstacle that is in your way, and
what is one thing that you can do today to work on overcoming that obstacle?
This is how the process starts. When you can get on board with the process and
take steps to conquer every day, you will see what is so right about you!
For help with changing these perceptions and ideas, and
working toward a better you, Fill out The Self Assessment Form for a free consult to see how I can guide
you personally through your obstacles and allow you to see all that is so right
about you! Personal Life Coach Laura Ann Allahverdi, serving New York and
Worldwide! 631-236-8296, firstname.lastname@example.org